If variety is the spice of life, then assisted living offers lots of engaging activities, wonderful menus, caring staff, and lots of interesting neighbors to get to know. This new chapter can be seen as a new adventure together as they move into a community. And their home extends far beyond the walls of their apartment; the entire community is available for their use and enjoyment. They can hold hands at the movies, pick up a new hobby, take part in activities, walk hand-in-hand in the gardens, and dine with new friends. They will have new things to talk about. Each can also take part in things that they love separately. All of the new activities, programs, and people can expand their social circle and add to their lives.

Understanding Intimacy Policies & Aging Couple’s Needs
Intimacy can be a tricky topic when addressing assisted living for married family members. But it’s a fact of life. Sexually active older couples need to understand the policy of their assisted living community, so they are comfortable. Usually, if couples live in a private apartment, they can continue to be intimate as part of their healthy and happy relationship. But in the case that one spouse lives in assisted living and the other in memory care, necessary arrangements may need to be made. Before the couple moves into an assisted living community, this topic should be discussed—after all, this is their home. No one should feel embarrassed. This is a normal and healthy part of life.

Even in this late stage of life, older couples still love each other. Physically things may have changed, but their connection is still there. We encourage families to celebrate anniversaries and birthdays because these are milestones in their life and love story. Surprise them with a date night dinner in their apartment for two. Offer to pick up flowers or a favorite bottle of wine. Romance may change, but it doesn’t need to end.

LGBTQ+ Equality & Inclusion
According to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, it is estimated that nearly three million LGBTQ+ seniors (65 years and over) live in the United States. They are part of the babyboomer generation and included in what the industry is calling the “grey tsunami.” And those statistics are predicted to double by 2030. Clearly, there is a demand for LGBTQ+ friendly senior housing options, so many are being designed and built across the country. These affinity communities will offer welcoming senior housing options and communities that are discrimination-free and supportive. Older LGBTQ+ seniors can enjoy life in a community where built-in acceptance is comforting, and they can let their guard down.

At Aegis Living, we are open and welcoming to all residents. Our staff is passionate about providing care with dignity and respect for the seniors who call our communities home. Our communities are close-knit places where seniors can live without prejudice and feel free to express themselves genuinely.